My subject today was inspired by a sister who visited our home,
and at the end of the evening she asked me, "Brother Farrakhan, I�ve
watched you grow and I�m touched by the growth of your love for our
people. How can I grow to love like I see you love?" I never have
been asked a question like that, but, while she was asking, Allah
(God) was giving me the answer. I answered her, and as I looked at
the words going out of my mouth, I realized that Allah (God) had
given to me something so profound that I determined that at the
first chance I get, I would share it with you.
My subject today is taken from the Bible, and it�s called "The
Two Great Commandments of Allah (God)." Jesus said, "Thou
shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy
soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great
commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy
neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and
the prophets."
The Old Testament, or the Torah, of the Bible is full of
laws�what things you shall do and shall not do; and the blessings
and the cursings if you do or don�t do them. The Holy Qur�an is a
book of law, but Jesus said, "...On these two commandments
hang all the law and the prophets." If you have a hanger
and you have nothing to hang it on, you can�t hang up that which you
want hung. So prophets who brought law come out of the Love of Allah
(God) for the people, the Love of Allah (God) for His creation. You
don�t need law if you�re not lawless. Law only prescribes the limits
that Allah (God) imposes on the human being for your growth, your
development, and your success in the life that He gives you. When
you grow starting with law, starting with imposing limits on
yourself, you grow into that out of which the law came. You grow
into love. You grow into Allah (God). Then there�s no more need for
law, because love is the essence of the law; and there is no law
greater than love.
I looked at this word "love" and thought to myself how we have
messed it up. You say, "I love you," but you don�t know what that
word "love" means! You use it in such a weak, cheap way because you
don�t understand the word and the principle that undergirds the
word. If you did, you wouldn�t be in the shape that you�re in. Your
life is a loveless life.
You cannot separate self from Allah (God), because the self and
Allah (God) are One. To know self is to know Allah (God), because
Allah (God) is the Creator of the self and the self that He gave you
in His Image is Himself. If you don�t have love, you don�t have
life. These are the same words. The Bible says, "There is a
way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways
of death." People today think they�re living life, but what
they call life is really death. And what you call love is really
hate. I�m going to prove it.
You receive gifts, and you give gifts. And you have a tendency to
love those who give you gifts, but, nobody has given a gift like
Allah (God) gives. He gives you eyes and then gives you something to
look at. You have an Earth at which you can keep on looking and
looking and looking. And the more you look, the more you see, and
the more you see, the more you marvel at a Mighty God. When you get
tired of looking at the Earth, you lay down on the grass and look up
at the wonders in the heavens above you. If you get tired, you can
go down in the water and look at a world under the water. You open
the Earth, and another world is in the Earth. The more you look, the
more you see. So the Master said, "Ask, and it shall be given
you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto
you." All you have to do is seek, but what you�re looking
for is already here. Knock and it shall be opened unto you. Ask and
it shall be given, because Allah (God) is the Essence of love
itself, and there is no love without Allah (God). If Allah (God)
is not involved in your life, then love is not involved in you.
And the words that you use are a mockery.
Mother, when you have your first child and you love it so much,
and you put all you have into that little one, you may say to
yourself, "Lord, I don�t know if I could ever love another child
like I love this one." Then you find out you�re pregnant again, and
you�ve got more love for number two. Then if you have three, you
have love for three. You have four, you have love for four. It makes
no difference how many you have, Allah (God) gives you the capacity
to love whatever you bring. So when He says, "Love Me with all
your heart," you don�t know what all is until He
stretches you, until you�re willing to be stretched. Allah (God)
would not give you a Commandment that He knew you couldn�t fulfill.
When Jesus says that the first great Commandment is to love Allah
(God) with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength, he knows that
each of us can do it. But you have to know why. I�m in debt to Allah
(God) for the eyes that He gave me to see this marvelous creation.
I�m in debt to Allah (God) for the ears that He gave me that I can
hear the sound of my mother�s voice, the sound of my brother, my
sister, the sound of my teacher, the sound of music. I can hear it,
and I love what I hear because Allah (God) gave me ears.
I loved the Honorable Elijah Muhammad. He was my teacher. I loved
him so much, I thought. And I did love him, and do love him, but was
it love or was it that he satisfied a need? Think with me now. Maybe
you should say "I need" rather than "I love" because the word and
our actions are not congruent. You�re hungry. You need food. You
need the protein, the carbohydrates, the chemistry of what you eat,
to keep what you love alive. When you fall in love with food, then
you show how much you hate yourself. The fact that I didn�t love
myself meant I could never have loved Elijah Muhammad as much as I
thought. And if you don�t love yourself, you can�t love Allah (God)
as much as you would like. It starts with your recognition of Allah
(God) and your recognition of yourself.
If you hate the fact that you�re Black, how could you love the
God that made you Black? If you hate the nappiness of your hair and
Allah (God) gave you that hair, how can you love Allah (God) and
hate what Allah (God) has made? You�re lying to yourself. You�re
lying to your wives, your husbands, your friends, because you can
never love your neighbor except to the degree that you love
yourself. And your love of Allah (God) is tainted. It�s only based
on what Allah (God) can do for you. And you love people based on
what you expect people to do for you. If they ever stop doing for
you, what happens to your love? So your love and our love has a
condition to it.
I found out as a young minister that I loved Allah (God), I loved
the resurrection of our people, but I also loved the applause. You
noticed that I told you today not to applaud so much, but to listen
and think. I don�t love that anymore. But when I was a child, I
spoke like one. Now I�m becoming a mature man, and I have to put
away childish things. I want you to hear me today.
I told this sister that I really didn�t love myself. I loved
Elijah Muhammad and his family. I would do anything for him and his
family, but I wouldn�t do it for mine. And I have to analyze that
now. How could I look after Muhammad�s wife and don�t look after
mine? How could I sacrifice for Muhammad�s children and neglect
mine? I could say, "it�s the cause. I�m for the Nation!" But I�m a
liar if I say that I�m for the Nation and not for my family, when my
family is the essence of the Nation. When you neglect your family,
you have neglected the Nation. When you uphold your family and look
out for your family, you�re looking out for the Nation.
When I began to answer this sister�s question about love, I said,
"You know, sister, the more I fell in love with me, the more I could
demonstrate love for you, because you and I are from the same
source." And the more I could fall in love with me�not in a vain
way�the more I could love Allah (God) Who Created me. I soon will be
70-years-old, and I�m just learning how to love. It�s a long
distance, brother, but it�s better to learn at 70 than never to
learn at all.
I told the sister, "Go home and write down all the things about
yourself that you love. And everything about yourself that you love
is of Allah (God). And on the other side, write down the things
about yourself that you don�t like, and that�s what you�ve got to
work on in order to love yourself more. Until you do that, you can�t
love people any more than you love yourself. And you cannot love
Allah (God) any more than you love yourself."
And this is why the teaching of the Most Honorable Elijah
Muhammad is the greatest message that you could receive, because in
it is a profound knowledge of Allah (God) and a profound knowledge
of self. You can only love yourself based upon what you know of
yourself.
Thank you.